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PoetryNEmotion · F
When you feel it is hopeless.
When you spend more time here always than there (in the other world).
When you know in your heart and in your brain, you will never meet in person.
When it brings far more grief than happiness.
True love online is extremely rare. It requires a great deal of effort, communication, understanding, openmindedness, etc. Many people play here at love. They lack commitment. For them it is just a game. For others it marks them forever. Be real. Be honest. Be realistic. Do not fall for an image of someone you think that is in your lovely mind. Extremely rare. And when it does work out, those rarities are beyond words. But NO false hopes.
When you spend more time here always than there (in the other world).
When you know in your heart and in your brain, you will never meet in person.
When it brings far more grief than happiness.
True love online is extremely rare. It requires a great deal of effort, communication, understanding, openmindedness, etc. Many people play here at love. They lack commitment. For them it is just a game. For others it marks them forever. Be real. Be honest. Be realistic. Do not fall for an image of someone you think that is in your lovely mind. Extremely rare. And when it does work out, those rarities are beyond words. But NO false hopes.
Kcmzeph · 31-35, F
@PoetryNEmotion yes thanks for this..sometimes it is draining and it consumes too much time..without the assurance that it will go somewhere
PoetryNEmotion · F
@Kcmzeph I take it you are in one. The further the distance I find the less chance it has of becoming true and in person or leading anywhere. One cannot detect tones online. One cannot express intolerance, unhappiness, etc. without others getting upset. I tell one of my closest friends here that he has no time to even chat regularly. He says he understands, but really, does he? Online requires time and effort. And our other lives clash often. There is no assurance just the hearts and hopes of those involved, girl.
ButterRobot · 51-55, M
PoizonApple · 41-45, F
PoetryNEmotion · F
@booboo That's the problem. One can easily expect online connections to lead to an in-person meeting. It is a bit like reading dating profiles: one gets this image. Many do. We are human. And that translates into trouble. Games people play. Oh, let's flirt. Let's fool around. Online sex even. One gives hopes, dreams a fancy flight. And catfish too. Add to that lonely people who just want true love. One that lasts. Sometimes the pages turn and one or both are left with blank pages. That is what I am talking about.
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TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
@Kcmzeph Bingo! Players! And it's extremely rare that any of them would ever admit it.
Kcmzeph · 31-35, F
@TeresaRudolph71 yes..they even justify it that it's a woman's choice to interact or not, maybe they are just there ready to play, and when they realize that there is no more fun, it is easy for them to disappear..too bad some emotions are invested with hours of talking or for them,, playing..
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