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Does anyone here know how to find someone that you've lost contact with?

Like, a website or something? I'm trying to locate a man who s3xually abused me as a child. I just want to confront him. I think he's in St. Louis somewhere.
You can start with the usual sites (FB, Linkedin) to find clues. If he doesn't have a presence, then maybe his relatives can offer clues. After that, it might require digging into other records, like circuit court sites, prison records (these can vary on access city to city).

There's some caution here because of common names, if you searched for my name (which isn't all that common except maybe in Germany), an identical name shows up in the same county with all kinds of stuff. Matter of fact, his wife's name is the same as my wife's. You need a cross reference in such cases.

You need special accounts for things like bankruptcy court.

Ancestry.com has a lot of information too. Good luck, and sorry for this.
hunkalove · 61-69, M
Google. It takes a while and some imagination. I tracked down the big predator from my childhood and he's in his 80s and apparently never got caught.
Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F
@hunkalove Mine never got caught either. I just don't want to let him get away with it.
There are a number of sites online you have to pay for...that can find someone if you have full name...I'm sure they don't ALWAYS find them, but sometimes. Try Missouri and Kansas vital records for marriages, births and deaths, newspaper sites for obits, Check prison records (he may have gotten caught molesting children)
truthfinders.com...You have to pay. And I have pretty much found everyone I ever wanted to find. Even helped friends get back in touch.
Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F
@JustLikeGreta Great thank you!
Longpatrol · 31-35, M
Christ I’m sorry to hear that. I think you should probably get some police with you so they can arrest him when the meet up happens.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
I'm pretty good at finding people. You can pm me if you want and I can talk over some of the methods I use, or try to find him for you.
When you find him, please don't go alone to confront him.
Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F
@Mamapolo2016 I won't, I'll probably just send a letter or something
@Keepitsimple98 No return address.
Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F
@Mamapolo2016 Copy that!
At truthfinders.com, they do give criminal records.
Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F
@JustLikeGreta He's never been caught
MarineBob · 56-60, M
Court records
Tminus6453 · M
Try finding him on facebook or some of the other social sites?
Graciebaby · F
Face book I have to say.
Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F
@Graciebaby I tried, he doesn't have FB
Michael66T · 70-79, M
I hope you find him !
Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F
@Michael66T Thank you!
MarineBob · 56-60, M
Maybe try casenet
Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F
@MarineBob Okay, what is that?
ABCDEF7 · M
All the Best !

 
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