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Okay, 2 things:
Not everyone deserves your trust, first, a person has to give you a reason to trust them before you do, whatever happens next.. whether they misuse that trust or not, you're not to blame, it's just life.. and life hurts sometimes.
Another thing is that trust is like a wild horse, you take it in, put a saddle on it and tame it, but it still runs and it still carries you places. This is how your trust grows, by disciplining it, and that takes time.
Just always remember this; you don't have to shoulder the weight of it alone, the other person has to contribute, too, in making it easier for you to trust them.. by giving you a reason to. :)
Not everyone deserves your trust, first, a person has to give you a reason to trust them before you do, whatever happens next.. whether they misuse that trust or not, you're not to blame, it's just life.. and life hurts sometimes.
Another thing is that trust is like a wild horse, you take it in, put a saddle on it and tame it, but it still runs and it still carries you places. This is how your trust grows, by disciplining it, and that takes time.
Just always remember this; you don't have to shoulder the weight of it alone, the other person has to contribute, too, in making it easier for you to trust them.. by giving you a reason to. :)