How do I tell him I want more of him?

This guy added me on Facebook last year and he messaged me to tell me that I was cute. So, great, right?

Him and I have been kind of talking for a while and I've been going to his house a lot. We have sex and cuddle when I stay the night. However that's pretty much it.

He holds my hand sometimes and the very last night I seen him, he kissed me and hugged me for a long time before I walked out the door.

I don't know how to approach him because he's so nonchalant about things. Like very relaxed and we haven't talked about anything important like that. I think he's just as scared as I am.

So how do I let him know that I want a little more with him without being broad about it? I don't want to scare him away.

And I'm also kind of scared of getting rejected because we have a good thing going right now. Hellllllp.

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SW-User

Maybe he is scared that you will reject him as well. I'd just tell him that I really enjoy spending time with him more than anyone else. Then I would probably tell him if he ever wants to move on to the next step that I'd be open to that too. Good luck. You look like a very beautiful girl. He'd be crazy to not act on it.

SaraxKay · 31-35, F

@SW-User Thank you for the advice and comment. I'm mainly just scared because I've never been shy to tell someone my feelings before.

It shouldn't be this hard! 😁

SW-User

@SaraxKay you're right it should be easy. Good luck.