Husband and friend ditched me after babyshower. Not coming home

So pregnant. 4 weeks from due date. Had a baby shower today. My husband starts telling me he needs guy time after the shower. He leaves with his friend.
Also, my best friend who flew in town for shower leaves to go hang out with her other friends. She texts me later to let me know she is now drunk with my husband and his friend (think she is going to hook up with the friend). She was supposed to come back over and do girl night. husband says he isn’t coming home tonight. Now they are all drinking and playing poker at husbands friends house... I’m feeling a little bitter about it. They are all spending the night there... am I crazy to feel bitter and sorta left out? Also thinking like what if I were to go into labor.. can’t believe husband is spending the night there... he didn’t even check to see if I had gotten home okay..how would you feel?

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rckt148 · 61-69, M

My women were attached to my hip when they were in final stages of pregnancy ,,and my women all thought their friends were trying to steal me even when they weren't pregnant ,,(women do seem to like me more then men ,but I am always the big brother type ,even when I am single ,they really are just friends ,BUT when my women is pregnant ,I know thats not the time to let her be jealous .
So I would have not been surprised had I tried that for my wife to show up with my rifle ready to use the "death do us part clause " LOL
I don't know your man or your friend ,but I know pregnant women ,
I would not want your memory of me when you were close to delivery, off with my friends and her girlfriend ,,and then add insult to injury, stupid enough to text you they were off together and not coming home .(my women would have never bought she was with my friend ,they we always accusing me of their friends ,but I NEVER hit on any of my wives friends .
I am the kind who could never forgive myself if anything went wrong and I was not there .
I was a drunk and an addict when I was with both wives ,,but believe it or not .
my family always come before my "Me" time
I was drinking and I was high ,but I was home doing it
So I think you have good reason to be pissed ,,
Leaving you out and saying they were together was pretty stupid in my opinion .
My sons Mom followed me around doing yard work ,she was real clingy
but our son was breech and sitting up ,
so I knew she was having it tough already ,I tried to make her pregnancy as easy as I could ,
I was lucky she let me go to the bathroom by myself LOL