Wat should I do?

It was ma Bday the other day and ma unxle Pete said to me he can't believe how much I have grown up and made a comment how I must be going g through bras so quickly as my boobs have grown, and it made me feel wierd😨what shall Iodo shall I tell my sister or my dad, talk to him, can anyone relateror gimme advice Plz

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Coralmist · 41-45, F Best Comment

Hmm, well maybe you could mention it to your dad, if that is his brother? Perhaps he can say something to your uncle in passing- or if you see him again, and feeling confident, say 'Ya, well girls tend to grow up at some point ..don't think u need to point it out ..' in either a serious, or even joking way (if confrontation makes u uneasy.. it does for me)... make it known it's really not ok to be talking about that to you, or anyone.

Littlelou02xxx · 22-25, F

@Coralmist thank you for the advicexx I do wanna tell my dad but I don't wana cause trouble my dad will actually kill him if I tell him😱and no it is my mums brother xx

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Littlelou02xxx Well hmm... I'd say i fyou see the uncle often, you might have to say it yourself, or maybe your mom. If you don't see him but maybe once a year, then it won't be too bad, but still you'll feel you might be uncomfortable the 'next' time you see him. I'd say tell ur sis or mom, and see what they think too. It sounds like he made u feel quite awkward, and I know I would be.... I wouldn't want to be around him saying things like that. Good luck-

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Coralmist Aww ty for best answser L... *hug

Indulge · 36-40, F

I have been in similar circumstance as yours, except he was my dads best friend, I felt embarrassed, and awkward too. But I made the mistake of keeping quiet and this man mistook my silence for I accepted his remarks and one day he took it a step further by attempting to touch me. I lost it and kicked him, and i told him if he ever tried to touch me again or make any remarks about my body that i will tell everyone what he's done and I will make a complaint at the police station about sexual harassment to a minor about him. Then every one will know what a predator he was. He never made a comment again or even came near me, he avoided me like the plague. In saying that, you should tell him straight out thats its not ok to make comments like that to you or anyone else, In future you would like him to stop otherwise you will let others know, including your dad that would kill him! so to speak! don't stay silent....best of luck

Julianking · M

That's weird, tell him to back off.

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