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Serenitree · F
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@Serenitree .. Amen. My in-laws still treat my (very spoiled only child) wife like she's living at home, trying to insert themselves in our decision making and lives in inappropriate ways and she allows it. I don't stop my wife from visiting .. but I dont like it and what I have to deal with afterwards. They need a life of their own rather than trying to run ours from 3 states away.
Serenitree · F
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In laws from hell. My daughter had some. It was bad enough when sh was still married, but the things we've learned since the divorce is enough to curl anybodies hair......and they called [b]her[/b] a low class slut.
Not going to give the whole story, but to demonstrate, at the wedding reception, someone said not to do the first cut on cake between their names or it would break up the marriage.
His mother said "oh no! That's my job!" And she took her job very seriously.
In laws from hell. My daughter had some. It was bad enough when sh was still married, but the things we've learned since the divorce is enough to curl anybodies hair......and they called [b]her[/b] a low class slut.
Not going to give the whole story, but to demonstrate, at the wedding reception, someone said not to do the first cut on cake between their names or it would break up the marriage.
His mother said "oh no! That's my job!" And she took her job very seriously.
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@Serenitree .. It's like you know my in-laws already.
They ran W's life until we got married .. I was a bit older, so them running mine too wasn't gonna fly. After showing up unannounced to go house hunting to "help us" pick a house and hearing about how much they planned to "help us" once in it, I knew I had a problem. It didnt go over well when I said we would do fine on our own and didn't require any help from them, financial or otherwise. We've not had any since, no matter what was offered. They didn't do well at hiding the strings attached to their "help".
They ran W's life until we got married .. I was a bit older, so them running mine too wasn't gonna fly. After showing up unannounced to go house hunting to "help us" pick a house and hearing about how much they planned to "help us" once in it, I knew I had a problem. It didnt go over well when I said we would do fine on our own and didn't require any help from them, financial or otherwise. We've not had any since, no matter what was offered. They didn't do well at hiding the strings attached to their "help".