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When I first met my mother in law, she came to stay with us after B was born.

to be honest I don’t remember if it was her first visit or second to our place up north but either way we didn’t know each other well when she shared this info with me. She told me she left bfs dad because she would be trying to have a whole conversation with him, talking about things, and he would have like the smallest responses if even anything other than “yeah”. Not in a mean way. He just, wasn’t conversational. Well his son, my bf, or ex bf, does the same thing. It’s really confusing to be with someone like that. I feel so unsupported by him. I don’t feel like he’s being cold or heartless with his short responses I feel like he’s just dumb. It drives me crazy. It was weird though how she told me that, I thought
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Miram · 31-35, F


Well his son, my bf, or ex bf,

You have tough decisions to make. You should not allow these things to happen to you instead of defining them yourself. You are a mother now and you need to build yourself a matriarchy with or without him. That cute baby of yours deserves the best.
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Miram · 31-35, F
@Notsimilarreally

When you say ex bf or bf, it means you are not deciding what he should be for you. You just letting things happen.

Since I am not welcomes, sure. I wish you and your child a far better and healthier future. And I am sorry that things have been chaotic and unpredictable for you.