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Any tips on how to be more adventerous?

My biggest issue is identifying destinations that interest me. Even just local.
WildernessWriterExplorer · 31-35, M Best Comment
Start volunteering, be more social, go to a bar or cafe and just read, go to a part of town that interests you park and walk around.

The biggest thing is putting yourself out there!!
darknessprevails · 26-30, M
@WildernessWriterExplorer the few friends i have are the ones that plan those stuff.. that's typically the last thing on my mind.
@darknessprevails we need to get that social group up my guy. Being adventurous is a lot easier with friends. I volunteered at an animal shelter and it extremely helped my social anxiety and built my friend base. What are your interest?
darknessprevails · 26-30, M
@WildernessWriterExplorer thinking a bit more on this.. some commom excuse i make to myself... "its too cold". Though ive done a lot better lately. This past year ive made the few friend i have.

Hm, i enjoy eating out (though gets expensive), golf is alright, fishing, etc..

One of the biggest problems i have is getting close to people and they end up asking invasive questions trying to find out how they can get what i got $$.

Which i dont mind helping people make money and giving thrm advice.. but dont try to take from me.i sense envy from many people.

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Just go somewhere. Dont pick a destination. Figure it out along the journey
darknessprevails · 26-30, M
@GuyWithOpinions yeah, not a bad idea
Umile · 41-45, F
Umile · 41-45, F
Start small.

Take a toe dip outside of your comfort zone.

Try a little something new.

Then work your way up.

Baby steps.

Be responsible. Happy adventuring.

Musicman · 61-69, M
Push yourself to go out. Take a day trip and just go explore. Invite a friend out for lunch or dinner and just talk and have fun.
darknessprevails · 26-30, M
@Musicman this is good advice..
Check out TripAdvisor.
darknessprevails · 26-30, M
@OlderSometimesWiser hmm.. idk.. for example.. i dont see going to the statue of liberty as something that interests me.
@darknessprevails But there’s a gazillion other things to see in the NYC area that might interest you.
darknessprevails · 26-30, M
@OlderSometimesWiser i'll take a look deeper into it.
By the time I was your age I was already a veteran of greyhound and amtrak, I was very spontaneously adventurous.
darknessprevails · 26-30, M

 
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