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Adventures in Sw -- Day 4

Finding it a little hard to fit in.
Everyone is great, but sometimes i just feel like a total outsider in the posts.

Y'all obviously know each other from the years of being here, and are closely knit.
That is good, but let me in too 🥺
I mean no harm, will only steal food at most. 🥺

Live long and prosper 🖖

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Carissimi · 61-69, F

What do you mean by “fit in?” You seem to be fitting in faster than I’ve seen any new member integrate. There are some cliques here, but I’ve been here since the first week, and I’m still independent. Just be yourself, post, comment, chat if you desire, and maybe make some friends.

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Carissimi · 61-69, F

I’m sorry you have been harassed. Did you report them? @SW-User

Bang5luts · M

I am clique free as well @Carissimi.. 😆 🤣

SW-User

@Carissimi yes, I contacted admin when I was harassed and they were very helpful 🙂

MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F

Honestly, I've yet to see you until just now. From what I see, the posts you've made have had good success, especially your first one. For me, I steer clear of the cliques because I'm not here to fit in with a specific group of individuals. That's not my thing. I prefer to keep my circle small, but try my best to be kindhearted and supportive to everyone. Be yourself and let go of the need to be liked by everyone and I'm sure you'll be just fine. 😉

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SW-User

@MoonlightLullaby As long there is goodness, i will stay. Love good vibes and happiness 💜

MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F

@SW-User Awesome. ⭐

I'm not really a freak, but a proud misfit, I am. I am.💛

SW-User

@MoonlightLullaby I'm a freaky misfit 😂

Miram · 31-35, F

You are in. Don't feel like an outsider.

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Miram · 31-35, F

@SW-User Travel to Algeria and I will give you two trees, maybe even more

I also have goats. Milk stinks but company is nice 🤗

SW-User

@Miram Algeria! exotic af 💜 Thanks for the invite

Bang5luts · M

@Miram and baby goats are thr most adorable ugly creatures I have ever seen in my whole life.. 🤗

Gusman · 61-69, M

Keep doing what you are doing. Not everyone is allowed in. There are many members who are almost totally ignored. Sad to see, but a reality.
All social sites are the same. Many insular groups who shun anyone trying to "fit in"
When I answer posts and everyone but my post is commented on by the original poster, I delete my post and stay away from those whom discriminate.

SW-User

@Gusman Aww that is sad to read bro, about the last part there.
If i ever accidentally leave you out, just know it's not on purpose <3

Gusman · 61-69, M

@SW-User Nah, does not matter. One becomes thick skinned, not playing their games.
I enjoy my time here regardless.
Many acquaintances have left but I still find plenty to post about and respond to.

MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F

@Gusman
[quote]When I answer posts and everyone but my post is commented on by the original poster, I delete my post and stay away from those whom discriminate.[/quote]
So much this!

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SW-User

@SW-User 🤣

choppers2244 · M

You fit in here i have been on here for years and im considered an outsider very few people on here talk to me and when i try to make new friends people never respond back to me or ever talk to me which makes me feel like im not wanted on here

Gusman · 61-69, M

@choppers2244 You are not alone. There are many members here who get very few responses to their posts.
I see some members will make 20 different posts and they might get 1 heart.
Really sad to see and it is discriminatory.
Cliques are everywhere through society and it is a sad indictment on those who practice discrimination.

SW-User

@choppers2244 Hi choppers, sorry this has been your experience. Hang in there, we can do this 👍

Fluffybull · F

I don't know people from years ago,or am part of a close-knit group. I observe, dip in here and there. Don't worry about "fitting in"; just do your thing 👍👏

SW-User

@Fluffybull Heylo Fluffy :) Thank you, will do 😊

Nanori · 31-35, F

Just mimick what we do and you'll fit in immediately :
Become friends with someone, listen to their issues and be nice to them
LATER
make a post about that person and call them out and insult them for no reason.

Mission accomplished.

SW-User

@Nanori 🤣 Thanks Nanori 💜

Nanori · 31-35, F

@SW-User I gave u my words of wisdom.... NOW U OWE ME FOR THE REST OF UR LIFE
ψ(｀∇ ´ )Ψ AAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAH

SW-User

@Nanori I shall keep paying tithes to the church of nanori!

SW-User

You fit in here perfectly. Just don’t get fooled by the fake nice popular ones here! I’m your buddy. 🥳🌈🌈👍🏼

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SW-User

Sure, stay genuine and don’t follow the evil ones here. Lol @SW-User

SW-User

@SW-User It is an honor to have you as a buddy, Destiny. 💜

SW-User

Thanks , same to you. @SW-User

SW-User

I’ve been here from the start and I’m still on the outside always looking in. I’m just here for laughs.

SW-User

@SW-User Same though, just for laughs 💜

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User you make me laugh so much here

Grateful4you · M

I love your attitude. I'm sure you'll be both admired and respected here. Welcome aboard bud.

SW-User

@Grateful4you Hello Grateful, thank you very much bro! Appreciate the kind words 💜

Grateful4you · M

@SW-User Most welcome. Enjoy being here.

Nanori · 31-35, F

AND WHATCHU U MEAN U DONT FIT IN?! YOUR POSTS HAVE MORE LIKE THAN MY NOODS
（ ÒㅅÓ )（ ÒㅅÓ )（ ÒㅅÓ )（ ÒㅅÓ )

SW-User

@Nanori You have noods? 👀 😂

Nanori · 31-35, F

@SW-User shite 👀 did I say it too loud? 👀

caPnAhab · 26-30, M

Don't worry too much. I've got a hunch most members feel or felt that way. I sure do

SW-User

@caPnAhab Thanks Capitan :)

caPnAhab · 26-30, M

@SW-User no worries, and welcome here

Pitchblue

Takes more than 4 days and I've been here years and am still an outsider.

SW-User

@Pitchblue Aww man sorry you feel like that still

Bang5luts · M

@Pitchblue

yeah right.. lol

crownedwithlaurel97 · F

bruh you can come in

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crownedwithlaurel97 · F

@SW-User the water is warm

SW-User

@crownedwithlaurel97 Dude i'm trying to annoy you, at least act annoyed 😒
But warm water though 🤔 Sounds good

crownedwithlaurel97 · F

@SW-User you can’t annoy me, not possible lol

Gusman · 61-69, M

Plenty of responses. You will fit in just fine over time. 🙂

SW-User

@Gusman Appreciated, Gusman 👍 💜

RunnyMascaraxC

What? I see you fitting in fine

SW-User

@RunnyMascaraxC Hello, thank you. I enjoy your jokes a lot in the replies, you're really funny :D

NerdyPotato · M

We have created a lot of inside jokes over the years that you may never (fully) understand, but as you've probably already seen with the profile picture warnings, more are created regularly. If you stick around, you can be part of more and more of them.

SW-User

@NerdyPotato I think i will be sticking around for sure, thank you Phoenix :)

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

You fit in just fine! I promise a lot of 'old' members, especially people whom have taken long breaks, still find themselves feeling it at times too.

SW-User

@Starcrossed Hi Star, i hope you are feeling better a little 😊 💜 and thank you

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

@SW-User I appreciate it, I'm still in the thick of this initial grief but I'll be okay, thank you.

Souls

I'm sorry you feel like an outsider I felt the same way when I first joined just be yourself and connect with people who share the same interest

SW-User

@Souls Hi Souls, after this post, i see so much support, i dont find it too difficult anymore :) Thank you for the kind words 💜

GunFinger · F

Hey JD you're good just be yourself. We're here doing just the same. Thank you for asking how I'm doing btw. I really appreciate it.😊

SW-User

@GunFinger Hello Gun, nice to see you here in posts 😊 Thank you for the lovely words of encouragement 💜 and you're welcome!

empanadas · 31-35, M

Naw you fit in. My bad for the star wars jokes. I still think star wars is just a creation of a samurai fetish mixed with space

SW-User

@empanadas You one of the cool ones for sure 😅

AlyAngel · F

It took a while to feel comfortable here, just be yourself and you will find your place.

SW-User

@AlyAngel Thanks Aly, you have contributed to me feeling comfortable for sure :)

JohnOinger · 41-45, M

@AlyAngel So what do you think of Jaydee7 & Would You Do Him

AlyAngel · F

@JohnOinger No fair to put him on the spot for them, no one would want that,

exchrist · 31-35, T

peace and long life Jaydee7 you'll get used to people and we you. Welcome! to SW. what's your question?

SW-User

@exchrist Thank you! I am liking it here :)

exchrist · 31-35, T

@SW-User very good you might find that this is kind of a venting place for people to say it here because a user feels more comfortable here/fewer ppl are watching. Or a place ppl dump drafts, hanging story endings and the like. So just try to be rational understanding and patient. It's good conversation and perspective.

V00doo

You're fine 🙂

SW-User

@V00doo 💜 Arigato

V00doo

@SW-User 🙏

Notladylike

I felt like that at first. Don’t worry you’ll start to find your people and understand the references

SW-User

@Notladylike Thank you notladylike, appreciate it 👍 😊

LostNForgotten · M

Brah, you fit in with all us other societal cast aways. 🫂♥️

SW-User

@LostNForgotten Thanks Lost, it is an honour to be acquainted :) 💜

eyeno · M

You silly, relax it'll come ...,

https://similarworlds.com/music/music-videos/4335064-IT-TAKES-TWO-Yup-sure-does

SW-User

@eyeno Hahaha thank you eyeno! 💜

eyeno · M

@SW-User it happens to all, maybe the vibes you give off IDK.
If you ask me your a cool guy 👍

SW-User

@eyeno You are cool! <3 💜

SophieSmiles · 18-21, F

You seem to be fitting in just fine

SW-User

@SophieSmiles Hi Sophie, thank you 🥳

SophieSmiles · 18-21, F

@SW-User just join in with the banter and you’ll soon feel part of the crowd

Chernobylplaygrounds

You know we can read your diary ? Right?

SW-User

@Chernobylplaygrounds Hello, Yes haha :D But it helps me when i write things. Just a mental quirk :)

Whyme · 46-50, M

Just hover around it will work out

SW-User

@Whyme Thanks mate :D Know any spells to levitate and hover? 🤔

Whyme · 46-50, M

@SW-User your not gettin all the secrets lol if all else fails send em dick pics they all love that lol

Meduxa

Hey❗️
You look familiar 👀

SW-User

@Meduxa Hello! Yes it is me, from your post :D

Meduxa

Thanks for participating 😸

SW-User

@Meduxa You're welcome 💜

Sharky86 · 36-40, M

Heeeeeeeeeeyyyyyyyy 🤓

SW-User

@Sharky86 Helloooo! :D

Bang5luts · M

Just show up. You'll find your place and when people get a little

just escaped from the zoo, don't get offended or at least try not to and you'll do fine. I've only been here. Nevermind this place is just like the lyrics say. "You can check but you can never leave"

[media=https://youtu.be/g16-FYr3W9M]

SW-User

@Bang5luts Ahh i love that song, thanks for the advice 👍

Bang5luts · M

@SW-User you're welcome. 😊

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

You do fit in here 💜

SW-User

@iamonfire696 Thank you so much 💜 Here a cake slice for you 🍰

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