I thought a vacation with lots of people would be fun

It does, doesn’t it!? I organized a family reunion for the summer after my grandpa died and we were supposed to have a little celebration of life for him. The older (50’s at the time) adults decided to rent a cabin instead of camp with the rest of us then they started fighting up there! Not all, just 3 but there were only 7 up there. Anyway all we managed to do is a toast around the fire one evening for grandpa. We haven’t had a family reunion since. The next time most of us go together was my brothers Celebration of Life in 2021 (which I also organized).

Hugs, it’s not easy.

I’ve spent 10 days on the Hawaiian islands by myself. Loved every minute.

I feel you, have arranged group trips /outings several times.

Nooo…organizing group outings or parties is my middle sister’s forte and I leave her to it. She inherited that skill from our mother. I just show up with food.

No I have not, but it's your vacation too, so just tell them that your sorry but they'll have to handle their own itinerary going forward.

Not lots, just four married couples. It worked fine. The ladies did their thing, and we men played golf. Dinner was the only time all of us were together.

Yes! Just last year I organized an international trip for 14. Never again. 😂

sounds like fun; I'd send them somewhere, then go somewhere completely different myself... 🤔

Yes, took the family to Disney World. Way too much work.

No and I never will. I don`t do stress well.

Sometimes more than others. Everyone has a different purpose, other than spending time with family, different activities they want to do

I try to avoid spending any time in groups greater than 2-3.

Oh no. Holidays with my wife's family are full of her family. And unplanned. And not as chaotic as you think, chaotic beyond your wildest dreams 🤭

No and no thank you lol I like winging it

The more you prep the less return on investment you get. With less planning sometimes is the most fun!

No but i consider travel vacations a big ordeal

Overall, it sounds like hell for me. Too stressful.

No fun. I don't even like packing for myself until the absolute last minute

Heck no. I really am an introvert. 🙃

More than a dozen you would have a hard time finding me there even. No organizing at all.

can you squeeze one more friend in? 🤭

I would never set myself up for this. 😅

Solo or couple traveling is the best

I would hate that. For me it would be a nightmare.

Considering how many to include is a quick way to learn the meaning of exponential growth.

Gosh never. Fewer is better.

No