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Signs you grew up in a patriarchal boomer home

You weren't allowed "special" or nice things because you were a child who contributed nothing to the household

Your father got his dinner first, taking most of the food for himself, leaving your mother to eat less so the kids could get enough

You weren't allowed to have any of the snacks in the house. They were all for your dad, and he had counted them to make sure none were missing.

You didn't go out with friends or play in the street because your father didn't want to have the neighborhood judge him from your second-hand clothes.

As a child, your job was to remain silent till spoken to. Everything had to be answered with "Sir" at the end.

You often chose to remain quiet and out of sight to prevent getting into trouble, which usually meant physical violence, or at best, being yelled at that you are worthless.

You were told you were a "dumb kid" constantly.

You never felt protected by either your father or mother. Neither really seemed to care if you needed help.

Your father was the first and final say in anything. Disagreeing with him meant some kind of punishment would follow.

Your father's favorite phrase was, "Do what I say, not what I do" to absolve himself of any accountability or responsibility.

These are the boomers currently running the country, and it shows with every inhumane action they take.

If you find yourself asking what is wrong with any of the above, you really need to rethink your life. The items above are no way to treat anyone, let alone your own child. Yet, I can say from very personal experience, this was how many children were raised. You all want to hate Gen X, but the majority of us were raised this way.
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That sounds much more like the Silent Generation’s upbringing than the other Boomers I know.
bowman81 · M
@bijouxbroussard I'm a boomer and that definitely was NOT the way it was in my house.
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@bijouxbroussard My father was a Boomer and having been raised by a Silent Generation parent, he followed suit. The above was exactly how I was raised. A lot of my friends growing up had boomer parents who did the same.
@bowman81 Nor was it that way in mine.
In no way, shape or form was that how I was raised.
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@OlderSometimesWiser It makes me happy to see people commenting that their boomer parents weren't like mine. Growing up, my type of parents were prolific around me.
@FoxyGoddess I’m really sorry you experienced that. My parents were far from perfect, just for different reasons. Probably starting with the fact that they were practically babies themselves when they had me. We were kinda growing up and finding our way together, so plenty of trial and error.
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@OlderSometimesWiser I was able to break the cycle for my own kids so I am at least glad the parenting didn't continue with me. My parents really shouldn't have been parents.

Sounds like you had a good environment growing up! 😊
Chiefjustice · 46-50, M
Well said!!!!

 
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