This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »
SoFine · 46-50, F
Most people are so absorbed in their own drama to even see you. So don't waste your time to wonder on this.
AND.... if people are upset, the reason for the upset is not the reason they are upset. Most upsets relate to an old issue, that gets triggered over and over.
We are all mirrors of each other, some will trigger a response in you, they then have hit a corresponding note.
Never assume how you think they are thinking .....
Be at home in you, be your own best friend. When you are at home in you, then your life anchor is set. People then won't be able to topple you over, as you are your stable table.
Your two tools of self-love and self-worth are their to validate and complete you. Work on them, they are your job for you to do ....
Quote for you:
No one is free who has not obtained the empire of himself. No man is free who cannot command himself.”
― Pythagoras
AND.... if people are upset, the reason for the upset is not the reason they are upset. Most upsets relate to an old issue, that gets triggered over and over.
We are all mirrors of each other, some will trigger a response in you, they then have hit a corresponding note.
Never assume how you think they are thinking .....
Be at home in you, be your own best friend. When you are at home in you, then your life anchor is set. People then won't be able to topple you over, as you are your stable table.
Your two tools of self-love and self-worth are their to validate and complete you. Work on them, they are your job for you to do ....
Quote for you:
No one is free who has not obtained the empire of himself. No man is free who cannot command himself.”
― Pythagoras

SW-User
@SoFine Exactly right! Well said!