Why I don't name and shame
I don't really see or participate in most of the drama on SW.
For my own self, not because of pressure, I choose not to name or shame people.
Some are indeed shameful,but I have learned to just report quietly, block quietly, and then go on with myself in my own lane
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The closest I come to shaming is to put up a post about the individuals behavior without posting their name.
Many times this has let the person know that I am not ignorant of their intent.
I rarely to never get any response by the perpetrator.
It is a warning usually made in a nonthreatening way so they do not feel the need to retaliate,but do get that their conduct won't be tolerated.
People have their own cronies who will defend them and some shameful people have several accounts that would later shame me, if I cared to play that game,but I won't.
I learned this the hard way on EP it is a circle that keeps going nowhere.
This is not an admonishment of anyone else and people are free to do as they wish or feel they should.
I just don't want the headaches involved with calling people out who feel the need to retaliate later or worse.
That should not be mistaken for apathy, because I would report criminal activity in any form.
If I felt the need,I would warn a person in private.
For my own self, not because of pressure, I choose not to name or shame people.
Some are indeed shameful,but I have learned to just report quietly, block quietly, and then go on with myself in my own lane
.
The closest I come to shaming is to put up a post about the individuals behavior without posting their name.
Many times this has let the person know that I am not ignorant of their intent.
I rarely to never get any response by the perpetrator.
It is a warning usually made in a nonthreatening way so they do not feel the need to retaliate,but do get that their conduct won't be tolerated.
People have their own cronies who will defend them and some shameful people have several accounts that would later shame me, if I cared to play that game,but I won't.
I learned this the hard way on EP it is a circle that keeps going nowhere.
This is not an admonishment of anyone else and people are free to do as they wish or feel they should.
I just don't want the headaches involved with calling people out who feel the need to retaliate later or worse.
That should not be mistaken for apathy, because I would report criminal activity in any form.
If I felt the need,I would warn a person in private.
56-60, F
