Agreed but the types of people that do that often (not always, people can change) have other issues, like my narcissistic ex was like that and some women that were borderline or at least suspected due to how their behavior was did that as well. It's kind of a sign of something disordered in the person's life so it's less about the relationship and more so that there's underlying issues that they can't seem to face. Some people also lack the neurons for self reflection (not an insult, this is true about the human brain) so they don't have the ability to see themselves but they can judge in others.
