paul tidwell paul tidwell 0 seconds ago I don't really give a shit about balance, I have a lover I love far more intensely than she does me. Doesn't bother me. I find it strange that people find it emascuating I mean at least I managed to charm her back. I never really bought into all these weird concepts about masculinity but it's like some people just expect me to feel the way they would in this situation and it's like ughh... I'm not in this to impress anyone anyway.... Society keeps trying to sell me on this script of I should be ashamed of allowing her more power over me that i've taken from her but I just look at that like why? Because that's tradition? because that's how it's always been done? who gives a shit about tradition? Doing something the same way for 10000 years doesn't mean it's not really stupid.