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ChiyoSKL · 31-35, F
Unconditional love doesn't mean you have to put up with shit. A mom may believe her murderous son deserves jail, but it doesn't mean you don't love them. The same goes with drug addicted children and parents. You still love them, but you realize sometimes they need to figure it out themselves.
ChiyoSKL · 31-35, F
@BlueVeins When something bad happens to them yes. When they do something bad no i don't feel bad. That's a decision. Unconditional love doesn't mean intense crazy infatuation type feelings no matter what. Unconditional means when something happens to them such as cancer, a car accident, a mental impairment, sexual orientation. That type of thing. It does not mean they can hit you. Abuse you. Or live without consequence. That would be toxic love.
ChiyoSKL · 31-35, F
@BlueVeins No. You can still love somebody if they do bad shit. Loving doesn't mean you have to like what they do. You don't have to accept it either. If love meant accepting everything the other person wanted, did, etc compromise wouldn't be needed. Again, you're thinking of toxic or obsessive love.