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Why do some women expect so much from men, and have nothing but looks to offer?

I feel some women want way to much from men. I see a lot of women (not all) saying on social media that in order for a man to date them they have to do, this and that or have this and that. One I see a lot is them saying a guy has to pay their rent or bills. To me that is b***s**t. Many women feel because they look or certain way they deserve everything. You can not expect so much from a guy and have nothing to offer but your looks.

[b]With that being said, I know many women go through the same with some men (not all). But as a guy I am speaking from a guys perspective. [/b]
LeaDhelani · 18-21, F
There are other names for those broke lazy fake ass sisters and brothers who needs their bill's payed in order to date them " gold diggers,bloodsuckers, sponges, leechs, opportunists, parasites, users" to name a few!! And then those who is willing to Indulge them
"Insecure ugly fools"! Is an arrangement and some people are willing to pay for it and I suppose they get what they pay for! I don't think should be much expectations except their arrangements, what those "Insecure fools" should NOT do is complain when the next person with bigger bank account comes along and not that they just leave them they also take what they can before they leave! The one who is paying knew very well what he/she was in for! And the ones who is receiving should just keep it honest as "high escort" and have nothing more to offer than looks! The only thing those people wants and expect is money and their bills being payed for and the other to gratify themselves with an arm candy and feed they ego and insecurities till money runs out!
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, FVIP
Because THOSE women are shallow and selfish. That's obviously not MOST women but all while those women attract men who are into shallow women then they will get away with it.
I am afraid if men just go for looks then quite often they will encounter women who are self-absorbed and selfish.
MissFugger · F
Marry a rubber doll then like this one dude, only pros none cons and she never asks for sht
MissFugger · F
But aren't men willing to pay for beauty and hot looks, boobs, butt, sex
SW User
Giving and raising children down't count? Or cooking and cleaning?
MissFugger · F
[@1073121,Leggs] ya, they gon let out robots soon into the public. I'm marrying one then.
Leggs · 46-50, F
[@537009,MrsFugger1] I think a lot of people have just given up on romance and relationships. I mean people are dating over the stupid internet or marrying themselves or whatever. Let's be honest, relationships are just not worth the BS involved.
MissFugger · F
[@1073121,Leggs] robots can be romantic I'm sure lol
BlueVeins · 18-21, M
It's probably 'cause there are a lot of men out there who'll accept it. Asking for whatever they want is there prerogative; it's men's jobs to screen for the traits we want and need.
Leggs · 46-50, F
[@4199,BlueVeins] the problem is that too many people are delusional about their value in the dating scene. I mean people can want what they want but if they are losers and are expecting anything decent then they are in for a rude awakening.
BlueVeins · 18-21, M
[@1073121,Leggs] if everyone else just treated them as the losers they are, the delusion would rapidly vanish.
OldMan70 · 70-79, M
Isn't that sort of how the marriage contract works?
OldMan70 · 70-79, M
[@7167,Adaydreambeliever] It IS a good deal for the men, so long as they earn enough money.. My first wife was a beauty queen, and I married her because of her good looks and sexy body. She worked, but did not make as much as I did. She could not cook, and we both hated cleaning.. So we always ate out or heated frozen foods and paid for household help so we could play all the time. We agreed NOT to have kids so we could spend our time in the bedroom..
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, FVIP
[@1154134,OldMan70] sounds like a pretty good deal to me there! Lucky you! It reminds me of the Dolly Parton song that goes, I don't make apply pie or cook meals from scratch but you'll never go hungry and I'll make your bed.. I'll make your bed a place you cant wait to go' - she has a point there I feel, too many women literally wear themselves out raising kids and trying to do it all.
OldMan70 · 70-79, M
[@7167,Adaydreambeliever] I agree with you that too many woman get consumed by the work at home and forget to treat their man like they used to before and when they married. I believe in polygyny in those cases to keep the family together..
Elora · F
This is your preference

Other guys love women who only care about their image and looks and vice versa. They’re accessories at best that’s why when life gets real divorce happens because they can’t survive their relationship lasting without shallowness.

It’s how they’re wired 🤡

There’s someone for everyone.

They belong together just like you belong with someone else who feels the same way as you do.
SW User
Some don’t even have looks to offer.
OldMan70 · 70-79, M
[@1182547,johndoe1994] You have a point. My little sister was always chubby to fat and the boys did not pay attention to her, until I told her that the trick was her reputation. Once she began putting out and not hiding it, it all changed and she was a happy woman.
Novascel · M
[@27230,Tminus6453] Here we's go Mr Tminus
MistahJ · 26-30, M
Very surprise this didn’t turn into an “us vs them” gender war. A lot of great comments here.
Lol, Some don't even have that, just big tits they use to impress, lmao.

 
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