JoyEla · 46-50, F
I just had this talk with my husband this morning actually. He’s starting to finally see I’m not happy with him and been checking out lately. If he loves you, he will fight for you. If he doesn’t, he will give up.

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No, he made you an option and not a priority. 😐
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@summersun either way it would not be wrong to lose interest... which was your question.. 🙂
summersun · 36-40, F
@SW-User haha yeah

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@summersun 😊

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No of course it's not wrong. When someone takes you for granted, they have no right to complain if you're going to move on.
summersun · 36-40, F
@SW-User true but in the eyes of the other person, he/she might not be seeing it the same way as the person who was taken for granted. Maybe he/she ignored her/him without any intention to do so.

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@summersun Even if it is without intention, the fact that this person was not of value to them says a lot. At least to me.
summersun · 36-40, F
@SW-User true
celine211 · 22-25, F
drifting a part is ok as long as you're not married
firefall · 61-69, M
I dont think that's wrong, and I dont think the adored one should be surprised or feel bad if the adoration they've been treating like trash, gets withdrawn

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Nope The person should be ashamed i think for losing someone like that passionate