Thoughtful query. I've already been giving it a thought several times before.

my actions are always driven by the need of the surroundings am in. Boss wants the work updated, friend wishes to chat for long, Paa needs me to stop something, copassenger demands for a specific poem and ...

In my daily life, it's way more complex than that. In my relationship, love

Neither , love is a false , unknown emotion that other believe they may have understood, but then it only gives them a short term high , then misery , jealousy usually is related to love or your own failings in life
Actions in my case are impulsive , not alway good I know , but they are true to my life and ways , but I’ve never been physically violent towards man or beast

This reminds me of how interesting the topic of volition is, free will and stuff, until such a time as i should see fit to say one thing or another about it, i remain in the purely interested in it group.

Interest is the driver ..... final answer *_*

I would like if more of my actions are driven by love, but it's not the case. I am more influenced by anger than jealousy. I think driven by love is positive and healthy way of living.

By selfishness

Jealousy

Love, though I don't think those are the only two options.

Love for myself. I don’t know anyone else on here and I rarely get jealous.

By necessity

Love. Never jealousy. I dont identify with that emotion..

By love. The jealousy aspect has waned over time.

Well, it's not love of that I'm certain.

It's all for the money.

🤔 I'd say love a lot more than jealousy

Love and loneliness.

I guess love and risk

Both😇

Actions for what?

Love

Love

Love

Neither