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How does it make you feel to be misunderstood?

Poll - Total Votes: 15
I never want to be misunderstood.
I don’t care.
People believe whatever they want?
Poor communication skills?
People just assume the worst. It’s human nature?
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AlchemyFox · 36-40, F Best Comment
People don’t even try to understand. I gave up. Idc what people think because it doesn’t matter what I do, when I’m true to myself people think I’m just a loser. F it
@AlchemyFox Well sometimes I think people just have preconceived notions that are NOT correct. But what can you do? It happens to us all. It hurts.. yeah I get that. Please don’t let them and their false notions get the best of you. Stand strong in your truth. You be you. And know for sure none of us please everyone and when you should see one seemingly being loved by all… be aware that there is SURELY some fakery going on there. I’ve seen your posts. You are strong. Be patient and head up. Life can be trying but it didn’t come to stay. One day.. all this will be a distant memory. 🤗
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@NoGamesTolerated I am who I am. I did that work and life forced it in its way too. I only cared because I wanted my son to see the beauty of life. But all around us people just give up and give in. I know damn sure I can’t change that. I tried. I always loved people, still do, for that I was labeled people pleaser and used till I had almost no empathy left.

Idc about popular people or opinions, never did. Never needed the cheesy advice. I find my own way and I believe people can find theirs too. The fact that they don’t has nothing to do with me.

I resign all cares anyway because my son needs me so much right now and I already know, nobody cares about us. Nobody tries to understand. They don’t ask questions, they don’t offer actual help, just cheesy, generic, over privileged advice. I know I got this. And I know I don’t need anyone else anymore. I need zero validation. Don’t even need acknowledgment.

My head was never down, my eyes and ears and heart were always open. But now I’m focused on my son. He deserves to understand himself and I brought him into this crazy shit.
@AlchemyFox I honestly didn’t form an opinion that your head was down. I was only trying to be uplifting and encouraging. As I said, I know “you are strong. And one day this will all be a distant memory”. Life has a way of changing quickly. I wish only happiness and peace always come your way. I know a little bit of your struggles in my own life.

PS. When you don’t care about main stream, as you have stated, you’ve already won half the struggle.

My words to you are of no opinions about you other than you are strong. I’m just encouraging you.

ShadowWorker · 61-69, F
It's always bothered me greatly. Then I have come to realize...if i am misunderstood...they can ask me to explain or... it's their own thinking..and i am not responsible for how they think.
@ShadowWorker It’s true. I understand that as well. However it bothers me too. 😞
antonioioio · 70-79, M
You just have to learn to live with it ❤️
Majorsite · 61-69, M
I don't understdand !
@Majorsite Nor do I. 😞
@Lostpoet me too especially when I know my heart is in the right place. 😞
SW-User
It's expected, i'm more astounded when i am understood, like how they do that??!! I'd like to understand myself too!!
@SW-User 🙂
SW-User
@NoGamesTolerated Merry Christmas to you!!
@SW-User And a very merry Christmas to you as well. May your heart be filled with pure joy! 🙂
Unequivocally frustrated to say the least. It could be explained by external awareness, so I'm told 🤔

 
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