I Am Sad
I hate that I’m ugly without makeup. And I am, I get told that enough. Yes, other people’s opinions on my looks matter. Don’t tell me not to worry what they think because that won’t change that I do care.
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Tatsumi · 31-35, M
You're not ugly without makeup. And I did see the picture, before.
At least you can use makeup, though, even if you think you're ugly without it. I'm stuck with the unenhanced face I have.
In any case, is there anything you could do to change, at all, aside from makeup? If so, maybe trying to do that will help.
If not, then what options do you have left? Only to accept yourself, as you are. Anything else is just gonna hurt you.
At least you can use makeup, though, even if you think you're ugly without it. I'm stuck with the unenhanced face I have.
In any case, is there anything you could do to change, at all, aside from makeup? If so, maybe trying to do that will help.
If not, then what options do you have left? Only to accept yourself, as you are. Anything else is just gonna hurt you.
MorbidCynic · F
@Tatsumi only plastic surgery lol
Tatsumi · 31-35, M
@MorbidCynic Eeee. Well, I suppose that is an option, if it's something you truly want and you simply could not accept yourself without it. But some people will always call somone ugly, no matter how attractive they are. Even the hottest models will be called ugly by a lot of people.
You said that it does affect you and not to say to ignore them, and I understand that, of course we tend to care about what other people think of us; but isn't the ultimate solution to find peace within yourself?
You said that it does affect you and not to say to ignore them, and I understand that, of course we tend to care about what other people think of us; but isn't the ultimate solution to find peace within yourself?
MorbidCynic · F
@Tatsumi it’s hard. Once I start making steps to feeling good about myself people attack me 😭
Livingwell · 61-69, M
@MorbidCynic You don’t need others to judge your worth. You know what you’re worth and only your opinion really matters. you can do things to improve yourself but I’d stay away from drastic things like plastic surgery. If I were your age, I’d date you.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
@MorbidCynic BTW- beautiful picture you posted yesterday. 🤤