grieving something that never happened

Years ago I wanted a sister. There was this girl I met in the internet that I just connected with so well and I always envisioned her as my sister. Eventually I met her and we now see each other occasionally and have a close bond and meaningful connection. To this day, I still wish she was my sister. I feel that I grieve the idea. Is it possible to grieve something in your mind or something that never happened? How can I get over this? Sometimes my heart actually hurts at the thought

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Jemimapuddleduck · 31-35, F

You might not be blood sisters, but if you have a close bond and meaningful connection as you say, then you have a special friendship. More so than most siblings. There's nothing to grieve for, you have found a friend as close as any sister could be, by the sound of it.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@Jemimapuddleduck thank you for giving me that perspective. It makes me feel so much for happy!

SW-User

Go away with your constant whining posts

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