That’s the reason I don’t agree with monogamy anymore… we are all sharing …some way or another.

@Heavenlywarrior If you think about it...
People would not share their toothbrush, house, their car, their pet, their jewelry..

but they are OK sharing their wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend ...?

@revenant I see it more in a subtle way… at least in the modern age of dating or relationships…

For instance… some people don’t care their women are strippers, on only fans, post half naked pics online, or even post their wives pics online asking for comments or even have a work hubby… can flirt and do all that. They don’t care … that’s sharing.

@Heavenlywarrior well it might come back to bite them at a later stage...

and there are sociological movements out there and the trends will reverse again. People should do what is right for them. Some see their partners more like friends than anything else and who is to judge if that is right for them

@WhateverWorks interesting it makes sense dont some animals mate with one partner for life?

Exactly. Not that I’m going to propose a theory or anything here, but the concept made a lot of sense to me when thinking about all the different kinds of relationships people engage in. how horribly wrong it goes when they are mismatched, but also how happy they can be when people are well matched @Heavenlywarrior

@Heavenlywarrior I don't think sleeping around or letting your partner sleep around is healthy for either of you, there's something special with the trust and loyalty of a relationship that makes it worth it in the first place

@MartinTheFirst I agree. I just know we can’t control anyone especially from my own experience.

Subtle influences are always right there to test us and our commitments

@Heavenlywarrior That's when we divorce and try again

@Heavenlywarrior Didnt we just spend 160 thousand years getting [b]away[/b]from nature to live a life we wanted ? - comfort, leisure, security? Delevoping our conscious beyond those of wild animals to enjoy culture and social endevours?

Naturally I could have a baby every nine months, but i choose quality over quantity. Responsabilty over wild anandon. Imagine spending 30 of 40 years looking after kids!

All that seed could get pretty expensive dude.
Hope you got the cash flow to back up your ideology.😏
Potentially pricey hormonal hobby 😂

@OogieBoogie not sleeping with every woman I associate with . Lol.

@OogieBoogie she had to be a good candidate