It's all in the mind

Agreed. How we react to reality depends on our attitude.

Many of the things that happen to you are beyond your control. How you react to them is not..

Ultimately that's true. 👍

Yes but not really. Nature exists

It is all in the mind , but it depends what and which one.

The conscious mind is more easily controlled, and guided.
The primal one isn't.

I love your ideal...but for some these goals are a long way off .