Also, sometimes it does not remain special anymore as the two people may grow in different directions. Unfortunately then if one of the two doesn't realize that it cannot and should not be forced, and that its not special anymore or that she cannot force it to remain special and keeps forcing her fears, you are in a very difficult predicament. You don't want to hurt, yet you are hurting and you dont want to be so bad to your lover and its just a big tragedy .. sometimes things are meant to be and sometimes not .. I pray for everyone that they don't have to go through such predicaments ..
