Do you wonder why some people acted the way they did with you?
I do it sometimes, but seems futile to find a good reason, and worse about those times that's something it's about them not about you. Cause you didn't do anything bad to them. So yeah. It's not always about you. 💚💚
I hope all you say is truth Because it’s a stress reliever to think it’s them and not me Certain times people nearest to us hurt us so much that you keep wondering where did all the good deeds go ?
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@Caleidoscope I don't think the deeds or kindness or the shared moments matter for some, but it's good to realize we did our best
@SW-User True - they don't make sense to us. But spending time trying to figure it out doesn't change the end result - so it's important to remember to be kind to oneself when it comes to how others see us....(does that make sense?)
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@fun4us2b yes and leave those that harmed us in the past.
Yeah I have wondered. But I think I kind of have an overview of the answers I need. It is them, but it is something in me that made me a match for them. And that answer is enough for me to work on my own issues.
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@SW-User mhm specially after knowing them already... 😐
Yeah, it isn't always about us. Sometimes, the other person is just going through something. Sometimes, what comes out is annoyance because they feel the lack of love. One cannot give what one does not think they have.
@SW-User We are all naïve…especially when we’re young or new to any environment. So I don’t judge others too harshly….all we need is a bit of understanding and forgiveness.
Yup. Ex-wife. Never got a straight answer from her. "Why she had to go, I don't know, she wouldn't say". She was steadfast in her saying "I want out"...........so I gave her her wish.