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Do you wonder why some people acted the way they did with you?

I do it sometimes, but seems futile to find a good reason, and worse about those times that's something it's about them not about you. Cause you didn't do anything bad to them.
So yeah. It's not always about you.
💚💚
Some people just suck. Plain and simple.
That about sums it up @YourMomsSecretCrush
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@YourMomsSecretCrush hahaha yes, it made me laugh but yes true
I hope all you say is truth
Because it’s a stress reliever to think it’s them and not me
Certain times people nearest to us hurt us so much that you keep wondering where did all the good deeds go ?
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@Caleidoscope I don't think the deeds or kindness or the shared moments matter for some, but it's good to realize we did our best
fun4us2b · M
Not any more...
fun4us2b · M
@SW-User True - they don't make sense to us. But spending time trying to figure it out doesn't change the end result - so it's important to remember to be kind to oneself when it comes to how others see us....(does that make sense?)
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@fun4us2b yes and leave those that harmed us in the past.
fun4us2b · M
@SW-User Absolutely 💯
Rokasu · 36-40, M
Naw cause I’m perfect.
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Yeah I have wondered.
But I think I kind of have an overview of the answers I need. It is them, but it is something in me that made me a match for them. And that answer is enough for me to work on my own issues.
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@SW-User mhm specially after knowing them already... 😐
Casheyane · 31-35, F
Yeah, it isn't always about us. Sometimes, the other person is just going through something. Sometimes, what comes out is annoyance because they feel the lack of love. One cannot give what one does not think they have.
It’s probably coz they’re too naive and haven’t matured yet….or just jealous.

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@Vivaci i have been naive... I love that quote, thank you ☺️☺️☺️
@SW-User We are all naïve…especially when we’re young or new to any environment. So I don’t judge others too harshly….all we need is a bit of understanding and forgiveness.

You’re welcome ☺️
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
No it's too draining ...
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@Justmeraeagain true, but curiosity arises sometimes
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@SW-User I guess I'm just too dang old
its been this way all my life so i am used to it
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yes definitely.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Yup. Ex-wife. Never got a straight answer from her. "Why she had to go, I don't know, she wouldn't say". She was steadfast in her saying "I want out"...........so I gave her her wish.
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@uncalled4 sounds right.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
I was too nice
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@SkeetSkeet it seems that some people take the ones that are too nice for granted.. 😐
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I had always wondered what it was that I did wrong. Now I look back and see that I gave too much of myself.

It wasn’t about me, it’s them.
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@iamonfire696 I feel the same way
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User I am glad you realize it’s not you

 
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