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If someone on here basically ignores you (but you used to be buds), doesn't respond to your comments on their post and never looks at your posts...

Do you stop interacting with them? Just ignore them? Or keep trying?

I know it's just the Internet but clearly they want nothing to do with you now?

Humans confuse the fk out of me.
Fairydust · F Best Comment
Sometimes you have to stop trying.


😬 Das me with a lot of users I used to be friends with here.

Erbudy sorta stopped talking to me. 🤷🏼‍♂️
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@Teggy You? You're one of the most awesome people on here!
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
Nah, I just move on. I've done it a zillion times at this point, what's one more?

Moving around so much growing up really fucked up the way I approach relationships sometimes.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@thepreposterouspanda I kinda want to block them because it just makes me sad
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
@AlchemyFox I usually just block back as well. I don't deal with people coming and going very well. 😅
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@thepreposterouspanda yeah it's a shit feeling
Dusty101 · F
I think they might want your attention and want you to roll the first move. Kinda annoying head game, highschool type.
The more you ignore them back it kills them. But they are as stubborn as Veruca!
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@Dusty101 oof 😂 people's creativity for being selfish is impressive
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
After a while if I'm doing all work communicating, I stop for a while and see if they initiate a dialogue. If they don't, I assume they no longer wish to correspond with me.
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
I'm not sure. I don't think it's happened with anyone to the point I really noticed. That said, I do alot of reading here and am not always the most interactive. I think sometimes I think I'm more interactive than I actually am, lol. If I notice that someone I like here isn't communicating I usually go to their profile and answer posts, or send a casual message, and usually get answers back 🤷🏻‍♀️
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@Notsimilarreally I've noticed it big time recently. I'm out of the loop. The people I used to share and joke with don't acknowledge me anymore. But I'm used to people not liking me anyway. This place was fun and helpful but now I feel cast out again. It's getting unhealthy.
OnePatheticClown · 51-55, M
People here are weird and funny, but not in a "ha-ha" way, so I've got used to that.
SW-User
I just talk to people as normally if they do comment again after a long time. I don't think much about who's posts I reply to myself actually, because I usually only reply if I have something to say, which often I don't. I think the algorithm keeps showing me posts from the same group of people, so I probably end up replying more to them, just because of that. 😄
I'm done. As much as I may not want to, I can take a hint.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@SooperSarah yeah it comes time to save yourself and your energy for someone who appreciates you
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
If we truly were buds, I would block them. (never happened to me though) If we just used to interact as strangers but they would suddenly stop replying and reacting to my comments despite reacting to everyone else's, I'd mute them and start being careful to not comment on anything from them again.
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
I would stop trying and respect their wishes
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I would stop interacting with them
Juvia · 18-21, F
I don't really think I've ever thought about it too much
Everyone has their own life and stuff so I just assume they busy, algorithm sucks, they don't feel like it, don't have anything to say etc.
Way before I go to "they don't like me no more RIP"
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@Juvia that's healthy these days
I am inclined to move on from it.
It is going to pinch, maybe even hurt if we were close. But I am too tired of wondering why people do what they do, and I choose to just let them be.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@thinkingoutloud so true. It's not worth the effort of wondering.
Ppl switch .Its easier to observe online how they switch from profiles to profiles in search of better prospects .
I completely stop communicating once I see that.
No use running after ppl who ignore you intentionally
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
If someone doesn't interact with me any more, I won't go out of my way to interact with them...but I wouldn't go out of my way to ignore them either if they post something worthy of a comment.
GunFinger · F
I try a few times but then stop, especially if I know I haven't done anything wrong. It's weird these things happen.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@GunFinger it is weird. It's fickle and rude and the more I think about it, why would anyone want a friend like that?
I stop trying. I might leave a comment here or there still because I just say stuff sometimes 🤷 but I don't expect a reaction
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz if you cared about someone and wished them well on their posts but they ignored you, you wouldn't feel anything?
Magenta · F
That behavior is hurtful and annoying.
I might try a few times, (if we were close) but if no results, I stop.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@Magenta yeah , just gotta let it go.
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
I think maybe if they're like me, they've drifted away. But I wouldn't mind someone reaching out to me, so maybe I'll reach out
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Lilymoon · F
It's a two way street. I usually give what I get. 🤷‍♀️
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@Lilymoon True. Sometimes I wonder why people aren't just nice? It's not that hard. I feel like it takes more energy to be a jerk or push people off than it does to either show appreciation or be honest and say they don't like you 🤷🏼‍♀️
Lilymoon · F
@AlchemyFox yeah I agree.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
I tend to move on unless it was a massive connection
SW-User
I think more often than not people just have their own stuff to.deal with and don't make the time like they used to ..
It happens alot ...I've gotten used to it .

I'm the type of person who will stop trying after a while ..
I will get tired of trying and eventually move on..happens to me offline too ...meh ...I'll take my cat over humans any day ...fuck em !
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I stop trying and I will block them. You don’t want anything to do with me so I will make that permanent for them.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@iamonfire696 at some point it just feels like they want your attention for the sake of having attention. A block is firm boundary 😂 lucky to have them here 😂
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@AlchemyFox That’s exactly it and I hate those games so I just stop that BS and block them. I am too old to play these stupid games and don’t have it in me.
Unquestioned · 70-79, M
If I think it annoys them, I keep going until they block me. I don't like humans.

 
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