is it normal to spend a lot of your time daydreaming
i've always done this, daydream about an idealic life i would like....today i daydreamed about living during the 1960s in britain, and its a rainy grey day, and there's a nice looking blonde girl living on my street and we meet and hit it off.
my life has been far from like this unfortunately, yes i am from the uk, but my life has been very hard, coping with mental health problems and asa result, missed out on finding relationships with girls......i did have flings in my youth with girls, but never found a relationship or steady girlfriend.
so when i daydream, i get a great deal of comfort from it, but its hard when you come crashing down to 'reality' and realize i haven't got a nice blonde girlfriend.....and in my middle age, the chances are becoming slimmer and slimmer.
my childhood was wonderful, its just my adult life which has been hard and unfair....has anyone got any thoughts about this?
my life has been far from like this unfortunately, yes i am from the uk, but my life has been very hard, coping with mental health problems and asa result, missed out on finding relationships with girls......i did have flings in my youth with girls, but never found a relationship or steady girlfriend.
so when i daydream, i get a great deal of comfort from it, but its hard when you come crashing down to 'reality' and realize i haven't got a nice blonde girlfriend.....and in my middle age, the chances are becoming slimmer and slimmer.
my childhood was wonderful, its just my adult life which has been hard and unfair....has anyone got any thoughts about this?
46-50, M
