I never understood People who were older and had no lovers or kids

But now I totally do. I don't think I want a lover or kids. Call me a coward but life is simpler when I'm alone.

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Earthwrap · 41-45, M

It's a lonely world because people are so screwed up out there.

Lichocolati · 31-35, F

@Earthwrap I know right. I mean you'd be in love and still feel lonely

Earthwrap · 41-45, M

@Lichocolati What I don't understand is how older people are 100% happy and content alone. I get that being hurt and becoming bitter is one way to reach that point and it's so much easier and better to enjoy your own company rather than deal with insanity but how can they not still feel lonely?

Lichocolati · 31-35, F

@Earthwrap most older people don't care much about sex. They only want someone to sit around with talking about nothing all day long. That's my opinion. I think feeling lonely is really a state of mind. I only think about it when I see couples

Earthwrap · 41-45, M

@Lichocolati The older people I know that are alone are not at all like that. They are truly just content doing their own thing and not talking to anyone.

Lichocolati · 31-35, F

@Earthwrap that's mostly guys would you not say?

Earthwrap · 41-45, M

@Lichocolati No not at all.

Lichocolati · 31-35, F

@Earthwrap I guess it depends where you are. I live in a farm and older people here tend to converse with everyone when they go out. They'd be asking all them crazy questions just to kill time 😅