I never understood People who were older and had no lovers or kids

But now I totally do. I don't think I want a lover or kids. Call me a coward but life is simpler when I'm alone.

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Solitude · 31-35

Same. The older I get, the more I'm okay with the very real possibility of being alone forever.

Lichocolati · 31-35, F

@Solitude You'll be okay till you're really on your own. You start wishing you had somebody but the fear will keep you alone. That's me😅

LadyGrace ·

@Solitude Well, I'm up there in age and I'm certainly 100% happier by myself.

Lichocolati · 31-35, F

@LadyGrace My grandfather's sister has been by herself since I was just a child. Now she's in her 80s living with my grandfather and looks like she's in her 60s, my grandad is no different. It's weird how their genes are ageless 😂. But then again it's easier to say I don't want all that when I can't feel the lower half of my body. I hope I feel the same way after the healing manifests.

LadyGrace ·

@Lichocolati You'll be fine. Whatever comes, will come naturally for you and then you can decide what you want to do.