I Am Confused About My Feelings

I have feelings for this one guy I know, but he has a girlfriend.
Whom he has been with for 4yrs or so.

I did not flirt with him, btw
We were friends, and then he kissed me??
Why did he kiss me if he loves his girlfriend??

Am I a terrible person for kissing him back??
We haven't spoken since the kiss, because we don't see each other that often.
I need advice, what do I do now??

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Flower101 · 26-30, F

He grabbed my ass too

AllAboutLaffs · 70-79, M

A kiss is one thing ... not appropriate under the circumstances .... but the ass grab .... that really crosses the line. Stay away .... you're going to be hurt.

Flower101 · 26-30, F

@AllAboutLaffs: do you really think he is just messing around?

I will see him again pretty soon, so I have a quick question. Should I have a talk with him about it?
If he trys anything again.

AllAboutLaffs · 70-79, M

@Lillymartinis: You can certainly have a talk with him ... but do you expect an honest answer? Maybe he senses that you have feelings for him and he's just taking advantage. In both cases ... the kiss and the grab .... he's disrespecting you and his gf.

Flower101 · 26-30, F

@AllAboutLaffs: thank you.
I think i'll have the talk and put him on his place.
The only thing that bothers me is the fact that he tells people how much he loves his girl, and then he goes crazy and kisses me deeply?

And you are probably right, once a cheater always a cheater

Flower101 · 26-30, F

@AllAboutLaffs: he grabbed my ass during the kiss, btw
I'm not sure what it means.

AllAboutLaffs · 70-79, M

@Lillymartinis: I figured that.