I Am Confused About My Feelings

I have feelings for this one guy I know, but he has a girlfriend.
Whom he has been with for 4yrs or so.

I did not flirt with him, btw
We were friends, and then he kissed me??
Why did he kiss me if he loves his girlfriend??

Am I a terrible person for kissing him back??
We haven't spoken since the kiss, because we don't see each other that often.
I need advice, what do I do now??

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leavingthissiteforgood10 · 26-30, F

What type of kiss was it? A peck or an intimate kiss?

Flower101 · 26-30, F

An intimate one. It was strong emotional flow.

leavingthissiteforgood10 · 26-30, F

Wow. Do you really like this guy? Cause he is in a committed relationship and that kiss would most likely be considered cheating.

Flower101 · 26-30, F

@GundamWing: I know, but I've been keeping my feelings hidden.
I know he has a girlfriend and I respected that.
And then he kissed me.
But now I don't know what to do?
Should I avoid him? Or should I talk to him about it?
I am really lost.

leavingthissiteforgood10 · 26-30, F

I guess it would depend on how close you are. Have you known him a while? And do you know the girlfriend?

Flower101 · 26-30, F

@GundamWing: no I've never met his girlfriend.
Not that long, from last year November.

leavingthissiteforgood10 · 26-30, F

Yeah I read in the comments you said he grabbed you too. It probably isn't worth talking about if he is treating you like that already. On top of him being a cheater, he is already pretty rude.