People seem to lose interest when you reciprocate feelings.

That's not how it works for me. Feelings wane when they don't lead anywhere, but grow when given attention.

If someone ignores my feelings it's not only a lack of respect and consideration it's also telling me to be done with them ...I don't have time for games

Reverse Psychology doesn't always work.

Not necessarily

unless she's reciprocating on my lap, then I'll definitely remain interested... 🤔