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I Am Confused About My Feelings

He kissed me and I kissed him back.
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Brooksy · 41-45, M
Day at a time - reduce your expectations a bit - make no unrealistic commitments

You got this. It's okay to like someone ❤️
ImPurple · 31-35, F
What do you kean by unrealistic commitment?@Brooksy
Brooksy · 41-45, M
Like, don't offer up anything you're not comfortable with. Don't do or say things that aren't sustainable. Don't agree to anything that's in the distant future... Just be you and nothing more
ImPurple · 31-35, F
The question is. It is worth the risk?@Brooksy
Brooksy · 41-45, M
It'll always be worth the risk, if you stay true to you. The worst possible case scenario is your heart will get stung, maybe even a good bit, but you'll learn something about yourself that you'd have never learned otherwise. I say go for it, with caution
ImPurple · 31-35, F
Omg. You’re words linger in my mind. Been thinking about this for quiet sometime now. All I know is I like him, i know he do too. Its just that hes into the fact the hes not yet over his ex. “She” became a habit to him and thats hard to beat@Brooksy
Brooksy · 41-45, M
I hope it's a good linger. Not being over his ex is definitely going to affect your relationship with him. Is there a possibility that they will reconnect? If so, can you truly be okay with that? That's one of those things that you can't commit to being okay with him taking the time to figure this out if it's actually killing you inside
ImPurple · 31-35, F
I know. I thought of all the possible outcome of this. But my heart is telling me to still go for it. @Brooksy
Brooksy · 41-45, M
As long as you own that decision. You both probably had to let some walls come down. He probably feels like he's taking just as big have a chance
ImPurple · 31-35, F
Im a very rational person. I always use my brain over a situation and this is the only scenario I let my instinc be. I just have to remind myself everytime not to dwell on this too much and just go with the flow. And also, to let myself ready of the outcome@Brooksy