I Am Confused About My Feelings

Hello everyone m 30 yrs a single working woman.Simple living simple girl.Now a days m not interested to do anything.In my office one of my colleague always saying about her age....she said m 26 now but still unmarried...etc etc.After her talk I always think about my self m 30 n still single.May be I m looking younger than my age but true thing is m 30.Many of my friends are now married they have kids.I don't want to meet with them.Last week after Church one of my school mate met with me n she said still u r single.See I have a baby n a lovely husband.I don't know why she said...I think she compared me n her life.When I think about all of this I really feel very sad.N sometimes I feel confused ...n I question to my self what I want from my life.

Wishfulsoul · 41-45, F

You should try not to compare yourself to others, or let others make you feel this way. Its your life not there's focus on what's important to you. Please don't worry about your age 30 is young. I wish I was 30 again. I'm single and I'd rather be this way than be with someone if my hearts not in it.
If you want to find a relationship there are plenty of ways of going about it in today's society, you just have to be proactive in doing it