Do we really change, or do we just get better at hiding who we are?

I’ve been thinking about this a lot. People say time changes you, but I feel like the core of who I am is still the same. I’ve just learned which parts to show to whom. Do you think people genuinely change over time, or do we just adapt to different situations? Curious to hear your perspectives.

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GoFish ·

some people change some stay the same

Daquered · New

@GoFish True. I guess the real question is why some do and some don't.

GoFish ·

@Daquered objectives and influence i guess .. a persons behavior is subject to their own intentions goals and habits and also other's influence over them for better or worse

Daquered · New

@GoFish I wonder which one usually wins out though your own habits or the people around you. cause i've seen people just stay the same even when everyone's trying to pull them a different direction.

GoFish ·

@Daquered it's up to them what they care to follow or not