Where do I go from here?

Long story short. Been engaged since June 2022. Everything was great. Then last month I had surgery on my ankle. My fiancé gets an office for his business, no internet for 22days, I cannot do anything for weeks, daughter gets into a fender bender, my dad comes to visit and needs a lot of assistance. It’s just been a crap month. Well my fiancé comes home and says he lost the spark, he loves me but not in love. Like. We were just talking about the wedding,which is in two months, a week ago

What happened!? I’m just lost. Now we are “trying” to work it out but he is a bit distant. Anyone else go through something similar?

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It's only a temporary setback, where your life together is being questioned by the new unfortunate parts of your life, what's more telling is how you two handle together this time and don't be disappointed by him expressing the spark is gone, it's him taking in this new part of your life together, expressing himself emotionally even though it is a sign you need to build more together, but this is actually your chance together to build that new understanding together even if it comes with having to learn a new appreciation of yourselves together.