Where do I go from here?

Long story short. Been engaged since June 2022. Everything was great. Then last month I had surgery on my ankle. My fiancé gets an office for his business, no internet for 22days, I cannot do anything for weeks, daughter gets into a fender bender, my dad comes to visit and needs a lot of assistance. It’s just been a crap month. Well my fiancé comes home and says he lost the spark, he loves me but not in love. Like. We were just talking about the wedding,which is in two months, a week ago

What happened!? I’m just lost. Now we are “trying” to work it out but he is a bit distant. Anyone else go through something similar?

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ArtieKat · M

How long had you been together before you got engaged?

Unicorn0512 · 46-50, F

@ArtieKat we have been together since March of 2021… I also started doing his books in sept of 2021. Which started bringing work home… and arguing a lot over it

ArtieKat · M

@Unicorn0512 You have referred to a grown-up daughter: has he been married before/got kids from a previous relationship?

Unicorn0512 · 46-50, F

@ArtieKat was married before. Two weeks before their marriage he did the same thing. His daughters mom passed away in 2016

ArtieKat · M

@Unicorn0512 At least you knew what to expect, I guess - I know that is not much consolation

Unicorn0512 · 46-50, F

@ArtieKat yes. As to why I am still here lol. I’m just trying to make sense on what happened

ArtieKat · M

@Unicorn0512 Has his daughter said anything?

Unicorn0512 · 46-50, F

@ArtieKat she was so heartbroken. She was fighting with him to work it out

ArtieKat · M

@Unicorn0512 Perhaps there's time to sort it out......

Unicorn0512 · 46-50, F

@ArtieKat it’s been three days. Every day I get a different version of him. But he still kisses me goodbye and says I love you. Maybe it’s him feeling bad, maybe he is confused. Maybe he just doesn’t know what to do. But I am giving this a bit of time to see. I’m still going to protect myself.