I have an ex who frequently pressured me to sleep with my manager
My manager at that time offered me $2,000 for each & any time I slept with her. I didn't wanna do it so I politely declined.
The gf I was with kept telling me I should do it & she would say things like, "it'll pay off your court fines" or "we could go on vacation with that money". At first I assumed she was joking but after her saying it so many times it turns out she wasn't joking 😶
For one, I was already paying my fines without an issue 🤷 & I already offered to take us on vacation multiple times because I had the money & she refused every time because she didn't wanna use my money to do it. I was confused like, "why are you fine with using someone else's money, but we can't use my own?" 🤔
I still don't get it. But at the time I felt really pressured. Like I REALLY didn't wanna do it but she didn't respect that. Which I found kinda weird because what kind of person pressures their partner into having sex for money? We later broke up when she joked about it again. When I declined she joked about getting a sugar daddy instead. I got pissed off & she swore she was kidding but that was it for me. Relationship ended right then & there. At that point I didn't care if it was a joke or not anymore. I was just flat out uncomfortable.
Now that I think back on it I realize how f*cked up that whole situation was
The gf I was with kept telling me I should do it & she would say things like, "it'll pay off your court fines" or "we could go on vacation with that money". At first I assumed she was joking but after her saying it so many times it turns out she wasn't joking 😶
For one, I was already paying my fines without an issue 🤷 & I already offered to take us on vacation multiple times because I had the money & she refused every time because she didn't wanna use my money to do it. I was confused like, "why are you fine with using someone else's money, but we can't use my own?" 🤔
I still don't get it. But at the time I felt really pressured. Like I REALLY didn't wanna do it but she didn't respect that. Which I found kinda weird because what kind of person pressures their partner into having sex for money? We later broke up when she joked about it again. When I declined she joked about getting a sugar daddy instead. I got pissed off & she swore she was kidding but that was it for me. Relationship ended right then & there. At that point I didn't care if it was a joke or not anymore. I was just flat out uncomfortable.
Now that I think back on it I realize how f*cked up that whole situation was
