The I Ching is a fascinating tool for divination as Tarot is.

I've used those tools for awhile whenever I feel stuck on something and I need to just pause, take a breath and reflect on what's going on in my life. I only use it when I feel a pull. Like with the I Ching, I remember being afraid of my ex boyfriend who was a narcissist, I was kind of leery of leaving him because I thought he'd retaliate or something. I still am kind of iffy to this date because well, you just never know but anyways, I wish I could remember what this particular I Ching said but I remember it was almost on point to my situation (the current/cast hexagram part told me that if I left, no harm would come or something to that extent whatever it was, it was right around that) and even though I don't know the science behind it, strangely both the I Ching and tarot made me feel somewhat better.

In the transformation hexagram, the one that tells of the future away from the original cast hexagram, it said that if I chose to go back, there would be nothing to go back to. I don't remember what else it said but I remember it literally telling me that if I was to go back, there was nothing to go back to. All of the hexagrams told me that what I was going back to was basically empty.

With the tarot, the card I picked out and my reading was that there was someone in my life who was deceitful and manipulative, it said some other things but basically that was the gist of it.