For the first time ever, I am disappointed in this website

I have always been a fan of this website and EP. I have always enjoyed the freedom it gives you to be your true self and share what ever you need. It can be a great place to let loose, to have fun, to have deep conversation and to even reach out for help. My wife is going through a very hard time, the fact that she tries to keep going and has not given up amazes me. She is not okay right now, and she has done something she has never tried before, she reached out for help, do you know how strong someone has to be to admit that they need help? I'm disgusted that someone told her she is being weak and needs to kill herself! Yes, she is hurting, yes she is going through a lot, but she is the love of my life, and she is a mother and a daughter, would you want someone saying that to someone who you love? No I bet you don't so don't do it to someone else. I have never been one to tell her what she can and can't do, but part of me really wants to tell her to take a break from here until she passes this.