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ASolitaryMan no! By her point of view she has no free will. Only from your point of view has she any.
Points of view are everything when it comes to such "personal" decisions. And not only just two points of view. Her family as well as your's is a factor. So is the society at large. And why their are laws against incest and other laws.
A relationship is a give and take. Yet you would only take. And if she just simply doesn't want to, for whatever reason, it doesn't matter to you. You will keep on pushing.
By you, her reasons really don't matter. For she could think you're just ugly or you are not powerful enough, or a thousand other things that have little to do with how you "treat" her.
No matter what, it still wouldn't matter to you.
Treatment is only a part of the whole relationship.