Be kind , but don't be a door mat to anyone ,

@ForesakenSoul I always forgive ....It doesn't mean I will welcome back that person into my life again

@SW-User Understand that you felt like you had to be the one who had to go. I was just saying that you are not a door mat if you decide to change the narrative of the outcome to save something you value highly either. Husband. Wife. Friends etc

@SW-User just suggested joint kindness and love can be better than massive cuts and sad memories sometimes if 2 people reallyv try

@ForesakenSoul I don't tolerate manipulative people

@ForesakenSoul this is not the case but it's fine

@SW-User Manipulating is what my supposed friend was. Closed minds and no chance to be fair or heard calmly open mindedness is what I meant. Like mine. She said we'd talk. But actually it’s him she wanted to ask for her advice. Unfortunately it was not the best but I understand if you don't want to be a friend to a guy like that

@ForesakenSoul I don't want anyone like that at all in my life male or female

@SW-User I agree there. Gender has nothing to do with it either.

Was simply saying. Manipulating and trying to be open to hearing someone truly trying to save what they want or care for without a write off or instant cold reflection aren't the same. That's all. Generally speaking

@ForesakenSoul I'm an all or nothing person

I'm too old to be pretending that when people treat you like shit that it's OK ..eff that

@SW-User Not at all what I said. I meant it takes two. You have to be careful with your snap judgement.

I only meant that eagerness to go mustn't be the cloud thru which you can't see real effort to be improved. Or a kind heart. Covered by moment of stupidity or anger and toss out a great person over single event or only sporadic pattern of reaction to the point of having been iron fisted .

@ForesakenSoul nope ..this was the best decision for me ...thanks

@SW-User meeting with someone who meets you with equal opportunity and mind sharing each other's balance keeps fair.

One wanting all and giving no room for anything but perfectly performed deeds is bound for a permanent position of disappointment.

@SW-User If he truly deserved it. And was honestly not forgiveness deserved. Or as heinous as said. I agree with you all in.

.I was just saying. Don't be a person who expects love and compassion for your life. But gives no margin for error or loss for others in return.

Aka. Jerry. And yw. I'm Kev btw. Nice to meet you

@SW-User OK. Well fuck me for trying lol

@ForesakenSoul I don't expect anything

@SW-User I only expect what I give