I Am Sharing My Most Private Thoughts

I work in a fast food place. There we are encouraged to be ourselves. There's a good 100 staff in total. and turnover is really high cos we work really hard for minimum wage.

There's a lot of really attractive people there. And a lot of beautiful characters. Some overlap been the two as well.

I feel attractions all the time. To two or three in particular. and one guy keeps slapping my bum. Have to admit now I've found this group. .. I kinda like it!

But I'm engaged to be married. We've had an electric relationship since the start. I won't hurt her ever again.

But sometimes I wonder. .....

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disastercupcake

Hello,
Just speaking from experience, you've got to choose and stick with your decision. Working with people that are attracted to you and are attractive to you in return, while trying to remain faithful is asking for failure. Especially with a younger crowd with no scruples. Even if nothing comes of it. Mentally and emotionally it makes no difference. It will eat away at the fabric of your soul. Your morality has no choice but to degenerate in this situation.
I would get out while I could, if I were you.

JoannaBe

I would disagree. I continue to work with a young man whom I have had an attraction toward, but being faithful is a high priority for me and not optional. I have accepted that he is an attractive young man, and I have moved on. I even went on a business trip out of town with him, and he suggested that we exchange extra room keys in case ours got lost (yea, right!), and I refused and made it clear that I was not interested. My morality did not degenerate in this situation: I had a choice, I made my decision, and I have no regrets.

DreamCoCreators · 36-40, M

Thank you for sharing your experience with me on this. It's so nice not to be judged on it. I really appreciate that. I'm sure that currently it is eating away at me, but because of me, not because of the situation. I have not decided how to handle the situation, what I want from it. Once I do, I'll be friends.

DreamCoCreators · 36-40, M

Thank you JoannaBe. You're always there for me talking sense. Yes I agree I need to decide what's what. Look drop and figure it out. It's a fear of the unknown. so I need to work it out and drag the unknown into the sphere of the known.

DreamCoCreators · 36-40, M

There I go look. surface deep. It's a vulnerability. I'm scared. But I've said it now. It can be less scary once you've said it. so they say. I'm waiting for that time. Or for someone to challenge me or interact about it. perhaps that's what it really takes, hearing someone else's views on it. a very interesting facet of misery I've never explored before. Didn't expect to find anymore of those on my own :)

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