@QuietReverie yea he does we have talked about it the beat advice i get is for him to consider add medication because this is impulse control. He is afraid to try meds. I am too so i get his point
Renkon · M
Overspending is honestly the least of what troubles marriages these days. The fact that he's willing to go to therapy with you is a good sign ... it means Communication is still alive between you two, and that's the spine of any real relationship, right next to trust.
But ultimately, only you can make this call. You're the one actually living it.
But ultimately, only you can make this call. You're the one actually living it.
@Renkon thank you im glad its not a big issue its fixable he turned 26 this year. So im giving him intil 30 to change. I am just trying to keep my hopes up every time he overspends meanwhile im living for months not buying anything and only haveing 6 dollars in my bank account. We have no way of talking about money any time we do he pulls out his leftist excuses
dale74 · M
At least you are trying to work on it. Hope he gets well soon
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
Divorce. He isn't going to change.