This is bothering me so much.

My bf follows a bunch of random local women on his multiple IG accounts. Some are his band pages for music, and others are his work pages anyway. He follows so many women it just bothers me so much now that I'm looking at his following. I want to bring this up any advice?

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PepsiColaP

I would just preface the conversation by saying that you have noticed something that is feels hurtful to you but that you don't think it's intentional but you would like to discuss and come to a resolution together ,then explain the behaviour and why it's bothering you/how it makes you feel about yourself . If he becomes defensive respect your feelings and boundaries and honestly ask for time to yourself to consider the relationship. You have to be prepared for that outcome and really think whether this is a behaviour you can accept or not and be v firm with your boundaries.