I need to learn..

The more I’m seeing how people around me are ,the more I’m realising I can’t change anyone but the hope that he/she might turn out better in future if I am giving chances ,like 2nd chance ,3rd chance etc makes the relationship more toxic.

That level of toxicity increases and by the time the relationship chips off ,the pain has increased thousand folds and the feeling has completely gone .

The desire to love someone else is diminished to a greater extent because I’m just simply tired.I develop trust issues and emotional turmoil.


This wrecks my mind.Why can’t I cut off at the first opportunity?Why do I need to drag the relationship upto the point of no return?In a way ,I appreciate people who have that ability to decide.

They are truly blessed.
:/