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I’m not sure exactly what’s happened, but my girlf has been accused of bullying another girl at work🥺

I’m pretty upset, we’ve worked hard to get past this stuff and now it seems it’s all going to get set back to where we were.
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Strongtea · 22-25, M
So it seems it stems from a moment when everyone went out on the work Christmas party last year. The girl tripped and bumped into my girlf and my girlf fell over, getting her outfit dirty. My girlf thinks the other girl did it on purpose.
I’m not sure what my girlf has been doing/saying to the other girl, but she’s ended up in tears today and it’s all come out. This is the second time that my girlf has been accused of bullying at work (not at the same job) and it looks like she will be sacked/asked to leave. 🥺
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
You seem to be taking on a father role
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I suppose sometimes a little bit yes, but generally I hope not 😬Hopefully it’s just that in some situations she talks to me first before her parents.@MyNameIsHurl
tobynshorty · 51-55, F
Thats really a shame.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I know, it’s awful. I’m going to find out what’s happened when I see her, but unfortunately she does have quite a history of bullying. We’ve both worked hard to stop (I was also a bully in school 🥺) @tobynshorty
tobynshorty · 51-55, F
@Strongtea Its good that you are both trying. Bullying is bad as you know and it ruins lives. If you need help I'm sure it is out there (I hope). 🤗
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Thankyou, it does totally ruin lives, I was horrid to several people in school/college and I now know what I did to them. My own life was also ruined as no one wanted to be my friend for a long time. I spent years denying and hiding from what I’d done. @tobynshorty

 
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