Is it possible i am the reason that make others jealous or is it their own problem?

@DownTheStreet they seem less jealous and more tolerant when i don't show off my crushes, don't talk to guys/men, don't date, don't wear what i like or new clothes, don't wear make up, don't wear jewellry, don't do to beauty parlor, etc.

But i feel suffocated to live a life like that.

@sahi81 yeah that’s just weak male control , do as you please

@DownTheStreet and also when men cat-call me ( negative attention is the only attention i got from men till now in my life, idk why they are jealous of that type attention).

@sahi81 well, I hope you can navigate out of that space, because I imagine being surrounded by men like that is simply awful and hard to find a moments peace. Hopefully you have female friends and mentors who can help or at least provide respite

@DownTheStreet yea but it's scary sometimes.... jealous people can go out of their way.. I am trying to avoid such people as much as possible.

@DownTheStreet they are not just weak... they are EVIL!

@DownTheStreet Yea some are nice... but society as whole is kinda judgemental towards women. I am leaving to italy or UK, this year :)

@sahi81 Italy is warmer and more passionate, and the food is better … go there !

@DownTheStreet i heard Italy is little conservative than UK, US, Canada, etc ( western countries) but still very liberal. India is very conservative but slowly coming out of it, too slow tbh .

@sahi81 northern Italy will be fine